FAQ 22 – How do I overcome fear in Pregnancy?


I need your help on how to overcome fear in pregnancy as I’m facing it on a daily basis. I pray and it eases only for a new fear to take its place. I also hear of women who have miscarried or faced other complications and I then fear the same thing  happening to me. I don’t want to spend the rest of my pregnancy like this so please help me!

I understand how you feel because there are so many different complications that can occur during pregnancy. Fear can be very real, especially when you are confronted with other peoples opinions or personal experiences. Needless to say, fear is not a good ingredient in pregnancy as it can be controlling and can rob you from enjoying this season in your life.

You might find it comforting however, to know that everyone faces fear in different degrees. We all need to learn how to face and overcome fear at different stages of life. So know you are not alone. The Good News is that you don’t have to submit to or be controlled by fear any longerI God has equipped us in His Word so that you can face and overcome fear not only in your pregnancy but also in every other area. I have listed some things below that helped me and I pray they will continue to help you in your journey. This is not just for pregnancy but can be applied to any other area of life.

1) Remind yourself of what God has revealed to you for this pregnancy! Meditate upon any scriptures or anything else that God has spoken to you. If you feel you don’t have anything like this yet then its not too late. Spend time with Him and time in His Word until peace and revelation come.

2) NEVER look at other peoples personal experiences (whether good or bad)! This is your journey and your circumstances and they can both be unique. So just because someone else experienced something this does not mean that the same will happen to you. Therefore, don’t fall into the trap of presumption or fear. Instead look to Jesus and what He has already done for you!

3) Don’t ignore the Holy Spirit! if you feel you have a genuine concern that the Holy Spirit is revealing to you THEN know He will also reveal the solution! So let Him lead you in what to do etc. This won’t be a fear as such but rather a nagging concern or like a “check in your spirit” where you know something is not right. Follow His leading because while He will warn you of things to come He will also reveal the solution. So don’t let fear rule in this. Jesus will always lead you in peace so if you fall into fear then know that His peace is always freely available to you.

If what you are feeling is just your own fears or concerns then…..

4) Resist Fear and it will flee from you! This is not about mind over matter but about replacing fear with faith. How you can achieve this is by reminding yourself of what God says instead of what your fears are saying. This can be a daily onslaught at first – especially if you take your focus off of what God has spoken to you and you look to the world or to other peoples experiences instead. Simply place your focus back upon Him and continue to renew your mind. Ttake one day at a time and know that you have not failed if you are facing fear. Fear is not bad in and of itself but it is what we do with that fear that determines our frame of mind or outlook.

5) Remember that you are not alone! The very Spirit of God dwells in you and is with you wherever you go! This means that you can tap into His wisdom, understanding, revelation, counsel (solution) and POWER whenever you need it! He is ALWAYS with you and He is ALWAYS looking to show Himself strong to you! So get to know His presence and His leading so that whenever you are faced with fear you can reject it and draw from His peace, comfort and wisdom instead!

6) Don’t look to the root but continue to focus upon the solution! Jesus has paid the price and won the victory for you through the finished work of the Cross! So no matter what sickness, disease or complication you might face or be fearful of in your pregnanacy know that Jesus has already done all the hard work for you. So dont strive towards your breakthrough or labour in your own strength but instead learn how to rest in who Jesus is and upon the fullness of what He has already freely provided for you.

7) Know that God does not show favouritism and He cannot withhold what He has already done through His son! This means that anyone who believes in and rests in Jesus can experience the same outcome!

When you learn how to recognise and follow the Holy Spirit’s leading your life will never be the same again. Don’t be too hard by placing a time limit or unrealistic expectations upon yourself. Simply start afresh by taking one day at a time. It is my prayer that you will overcome all your fears and enjoy every stage of your pregnancy.

(C) Copyright Nerida Walker 2015

Related Resources

YouTube Video – The 7 Spirit’s of God (wisdom, understanding, counsel, might, Knowledge and fear of the Lord)

YouTube Video – How to Hear God’s Voice

YouTube Video – How to Prosper in your Pregnancy

God’s Plan for Pregnancy Resources – Books, Audio Messages and Videos

Positively Pregnant – 4 Powerful Audio Messages on experiencing God’s Plan for your Pregnancy

Godly Pregnancy Support – New Life Ministries web site

New scientific study proves we are fearfully and wonderfully made

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How To Deal With Pregnancy Envy

I am so thankful my pregnancy is going well and that I am able to experience this again. Less than a year ago, I was ready to pack it in and take a break from the 14 month battle with infertility. I was worn out from all the charting, wondering, questioning, and waiting. I was afraid it wasn’t going to happen and if it did, I was afraid that my pregnancy would end too soon as it has 12 times before. I was envious of others who seemed to have it happen so easily.

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Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him. Ps 127:3 NLT

All throughout the Bible, God tells us that children are a gift and a reward from Him. Never does it say that children are something we are to fear or dread. With this in mind it is easy then to understand that pregnancy is simply God’s designed way for us to bring the blessing of children into our world!  It is meant to be a blessing! However, we live in a fallen world

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God’s Plan for PREGNANCY!

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How to rest in Jesus finished work during Pregnancy Complications!

How to rest in Jesus finished work during Pregnancy Complications!

I felt led to share with those of you who face complications in your pregnancy not to be thrown “if” a challenge presents itself. Sometimes we can feel overwhelmed by the complications we face and we get caught up in analyzing why they are there or how come we are struggling etc. But at the end of the day, try not to focus on the natural facts and on the why’s or how’s, instead focus on the solution, which is Jesus and His finished work!

During my 1st pregnancy it seemed like a constant battle for Kaitlin’s life! We’d overcome one hurdle and another would present itself BUT as we stopped looking to the challenges and instead looked to Jesus and focussed on the answer, we were able to get the victory every single time.

Remember always that Jesus has ALREADY won the battle for you! The price has been paid and the victory already won over any form of sickness or disease – and this includes all the complications that can manifest itself in your pregnancy!

The Bible says many are the afflictions of the righteous BUT the Lord shall deliver us from them all. Therefore,the Good News for those of us in the New Covenant is that we already have victory over any complication we may face in a pregnancy because Jesus has already gone before us and won the battle through His finished work.

I encourage you to take one day at a time as you grow in this truth and learn to rest in what Jesus has already purchased for you. Keep meditating on the truth of what Jesus has already done because this will help to renew your mind and for this truth to come to life and become real to you personally. Also remember that you don’t have to labour to make healing manifest! One of the most powerful prayers you can pray is:-

PRAYER: “Lord I can’t do this, I can’t make this happen so I resign from all of my trying and self-effort and I ask you to help me because all things are possible with you”.

This will help you to take the focus off of you and what you can do and to rest in Jesus power and ability instead. I know many who have experienced a supernatural breakthrough this way. It is soooo freeing to know that we don’t have to fight this battle alone and do everything in our own strength. Jesus is right there with you and He is looking to show Himself strong to you and help you in your time of need :)

Now that is Good News!

This is also Posted in Hannah’s Victory here

(c) Copyright Nerida Walker 2011


How to Prosper in your Pregnancy

Powerful Fertility Related Resources!

I have created a New Page on this blog to list some Powerful Fertility Related Resources to help you in your journey. They have been created to help you to cross the line and walk in victory over barrenness – in every area of your life!

Visit: https://faithandfertility.com/resources/ for more information!

On-line Support

God’s Plan for Pregnancy Private Facebook Group
This Group is for:-
  • Married Christian Couples (husbands & wives can both join)
  • Married Christian Couples who are in
  • agreement on having a baby
  • The focus of this group is for those who are believing God for their OWN biological children (Note: this group does not cater for donor or adoption).
  • This group is also for those who would like to learn more & be encouraged in any area of reproductive health (i.e. Conception, Pregnancy, Childbirth and beyond)
  • If you have had a victory in these areas & would like to join to encourage, pray & support others you are also welcome to join.
This is a Closed Group (for privacy reasons)
MEMBERS ONLY can view the posts! However, please NOTE that your posts and comments within the group will show up on your timeline BUT ONLY YOU and your friends who are also in the group can see the posts. This means that NO ONE ELSE can see what you post in this group. We have double checked this feature so rest assured your posts are private.

If you don’t want to join the group but would like to be encouraged through my facebook posts then simply like my God’s Plan for Pregnancy facebook page here https://www.facebook.com/GPFPG or like my own page here https://www.facebook.com/psneridawalker

On becoming a member of this group you agree to adhere to the following guidelines. These are simply to create a safe and unified environment for all the members.
General Guidelines:-
  • It will be beneficial for you to believe in and be open to Healing and Jesus finished work.
  • Please stay on topic. This group is for ALL things that pertain to reproductive healing, general healing, & fertility/reproductive/marriage related discussions. Please keep other topics to a minimum. You are free to discuss all other topics in our other Facebook Group IT IS FINISHED  here https://www.facebook.com/groups/itisfinished/
  • Please refrain from using foul language
  • Please refrain from heated discussions with other members. If there is any offence taken from other members please contact the person privately & if the issue is not resolved privately please contact the admins of this group.
Please feel free to:-

  • Ask Questions
  • Post prayer Requests
  • Post Praise Reports
  • Post Testimonies
  • Post Scriptures, links, articles that are on topic with the group

We pray you will find this group a great source of encouragement in your journey and what you learn will help you to cross the line from barrenness into FRUITFULNESS in every area of your life!

Youtube Video’s

If you don’t already know I have a whole range of Video Messages and Prayers on Youtube.  Visit http://www.youtube.com/user/newlifem777 to view.